2017 08 06
Jean Jammin’ and Better Poops: The Angie and Amy Story Part 2
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2017 08 01
Mindfulness Mondays: Cultivate Strategic Objectivity to Make Clearer Decisions
How might I use this knowledge to re-engineer my own decision making process?
If I could give clear-headed advice to others, I could certainly learn to cut through the noise of my own challenges.It's Hard to Stay Objective
When you’re the main character in your life’s story, it’s hard to stay objective. You live life in a 1st-person view. Your experiences are saturated with emotions, and instincts drive much of your decision-making. This isn’t inherently bad. Your instincts and emotions make you who you are! But those emotions aren’t always helpful for making sound decisions. You need a healthy level of detachment from your point-of-view in order to fully process any scenario. A mindfulness practice can help get you there. Meditation, journaling, and other activities work well to cultivate awareness. But they only go so far. What’s needed is a reliable strategy you can use to cultivate objectivity. Whether you’re faced with a tough decision or just want to do more reflection, the process of “zooming out” gives you the perspective to be objective.Give Yourself the Advice You’d Give to A Friend
The gist of this strategy is to give yourself the advice you’d give a friend if they were in your shoes. Instead of “I need to make this decision”, it becomes “They need to make a decision”. There’s less pressure. You think more clearly. It can feel unnatural to treat yourself like a different person, but it makes a world of difference. Follow the steps below to make the exercise as effective as you can. This strategy simplifies into four main steps.- Awareness: Realizing you’re in a situation where your judgement could be clouded by emotions, fears, and other personal biases.
- Perspective: “Zoom out” to get an objective understanding of your situation.
- Analysis: Consider the pros and cons of potential paths forward.
- Advice: Give advice to yourself.
Step 1: Cultivate Awareness to Know When to Start
As with most mindful practices, the first step is awareness. 😃 Be on the lookout for decision points in your life. Notice when you’re struggling with a tricky situation, or feel wrapped up in your own head. That’s when it’s time to pause, and zoom out. For practice: Meditation and journaling exercises are valuable to increase your awareness on a regular basis.Step 2: Zoom Out to Promote Objectivity
Shift from 1st-person (“I have this decision to make”) to 3rd person (“[your name] has a decision to make.”) Envision stepping outside of yourself to see the situation with a fresh set of eyes. Then, write out all the facts of your situation:- What are the biggest moving pieces? Why do they matter?
- What are the emotions you’re feeling? Why?
- Are you experiencing fear? Where is it coming from?
Step 3: Analyze the Situation With a Fresh Set of Eyes
This is where you start move towards a decision. Given the facts of the situation (that you listed out in step 2),- What are the different choices one could make in this scenario?
- What are the likely outcomes of those paths, both positive and negative?
Step 4: Give Yourself Clear-Headed Advice
After analyzing the situation, give yourself the advice you’d give to a friend in your shoes. Don't just think about doing this. Take physical steps to share the advice as you would with a friend:- Write an email to yourself
- Write a letter to yourself
- Record a video to yourself
Better Decisions Build A Better Life
Giving myself advice is my go-to strategy to make better decisions. It helps me follow through on important things (like having vulnerable conversations with others) when resistance and fear get in the way. This strategy is particularly useful for challenging situations. But it’s also useful for more regular journaling. For example, taking ten minutes to write about your life from a 3rd-person perspective once per week. It helps me live by the principles I believe to be important, but are difficult to follow through on. I hope it will do the same for you! The more you break through life’s natural resistance, the easier it becomes.Patrick Buggy is a coach and writer at MindfulAmbition.net, where he shares mindful strategies to help you live your best life. To start every week on the right foot, join the free newsletter: Mindful Monday Mornings.
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Mindfulness Mondays: Journey Over Destination (How to Build Consistent Satisfaction in Your Work)
“Desire is a contract you make with yourself to be unhappy until you get something.” - Naval Ravikant
Longing for the destination of whatever you’re doing creates unhappiness and distress in the present.Veruca Salt Syndrome
Remember the demanding young girl in Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory?“I want a golden goose...and I want it now!"
Desire fixed her focus on something she didn’t have. She wanted that golden goose, and not having it created incredible frustration! It’s an extreme example, but you and I behave like Veruca from time to time. This is an age of instant gratification. Food, movies, music, and more can be yours with the tap of a screen. Expectations of immediacy (impatience) creep into other parts of life without you realizing. I call it Veruca Salt Syndrome. ;) It’s when you let the fact that you haven’t reached your destination yet bring you down. Progress takes patience. Projections, goals, and expectations are great to hold you accountable. But sometimes it just takes longer than you think it will to accomplish something you set out to do. And that’s okay! When you latch on to the end result, you limit your satisfaction and happiness to a specific point in time. Crossing the “finish line” brings a surge of joy! But it doesn’t take long before you attach to another destination. The cycle repeats itself... Unless you decide to change your mindset! Instead of focusing on the end-point, think about what you can do to make progress towards the destination.Focus on the Journey
Emphasizing the journey means you get satisfaction from the work you put in, not just the end result. Doing this links your satisfaction to something that’s in your control (the work you put in). Focusing on the results of your work (the destination) does the opposite. It links your personal satisfaction to something outside of your control. It will always be more productive to focus your energy on what's in your control. Here’s how to get started. [caption id="attachment_296" align="alignnone" width="650"] Hiking is literally about the journey. When you start wishing you were at the destination, the hike loses its fun.[/caption]How to Start Paying Attention to the Journey
1. Accept that progress takes patience, and that a journey is made from small steps.
The infamous “startup in a garage” stories are a great lesson here. Anything great that’s ever been done started from nothing and grew over time. You don’t get where you want to go in massive leaps. It all happens in small steps.2. Ask yourself three big questions every day to stay focused on the journey.
- What can I do today to make it a great day? This focuses you on action instead of desire.
- Am I working from my priorities? This question is about focus. I’ve been a Type-A overachiever for most of my life. I always tried to do too much at once. Now, I choose to do fewer different things in my life. But most things I do week-to-week matter to me. If you answer “yes” to this, then you know you’re heading in the right direction! If not, you need to rebalance what you spend your time on week-to-week. Clarify your priorities with The 20 Minute Life Checkup if needed.
- Am I working on high-impact activities? There are countless ways to approach any goal/priority. If you believe you’re working towards your destination in an effective manner, take comfort in the fact that you’re working towards your destination! If not, take the opportunity to explore a different path.
3. Keep track of the little wins in your day-to-day
Some days, it can feel like you didn’t do much of anything. It’s a corrosive feeling that I’m all too familiar with it. But I started keeping better track of the little things in my life and work. It gives me pride to count the little victories every day. Here’s my current strategy for tracking the little things:- Keep a "Work Journal” that answers two questions 1. What did I work on today? Appreciate what you’ve done. Even the little tasks! 2. What are the 3 most important things that I should focus on tomorrow? Prime yourself you for future action. It makes tomorrow easier. :)
- Keep a gratitude journal at home Appreciating the many gifts you have helps to raise your spirits when done consistently. For advice on how to get started, check out this guide.
Journey > Destination
When you’re doing something new, or chasing a big goal, it’s natural to get excited about what’s to come. Don’t let your enthusiasm infect you with excess amounts of desire. Latching on to your end goal breeds dissatisfaction. Instead, focus on the journey. :) When you get satisfaction from the process of taking action, you’re always in control. You don’t get bent out of shape when things don’t go according to plan. All that matters is the quality of the effort you put forth.Patrick Buggy is a coach and writer at MindfulAmbition.net, where he shares mindful strategies to help you live your best life. To start every week on the right foot, join the free newsletter: Mindful Monday Mornings.
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